In life many a times we face certain dilemmas.
Who to say ,what to and when. And when we do would it be received in the spirit of frank honesty or apprehension of misunderstanding.
Vital opinions essential for the moment have the misfortune of getting covered in a blanket of silence and muted for fear of disturbing the object of comment.
Sometimes with disastrous consequences. So generally the easier path is taken. Better to be quiet and not lose a relationship than otherwise.
Relationships, though have their own graph. Many in them expect that you speak up. It demonstrates strength and belief and confidence of understanding. If.. both parties remain on the same plain.
Many a times it is this very plain that becomes the cause of the disturbance.
Delicate !! Difficult !! Sensitive !! Undecided !! Most would rather not ruffle the feathers. I sometimes exercise discretion. I find myself taking it upon myself rather than passing it on. And a simple philosophy to justify that. Better one troubled being than two !! Better me than he. :)
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